Cheating to every lady is normal with guys, some feel there is no saint
out there when it comes to having a perfect partner. when a guy starts
cheating, it does not necessarily means that he do not love you any
more. The whole cheating thing might be as a result of something
missing in the relationship, sexually, physically or emotionally .
We learn to cope with this attitude and it has become part of us, like
every man cheats and nothing can be done about it. Love is the
foundation of a genuine relationship but you need other ingredients to
to sustain the relationship. Here are some things you need to do to
keep your partner from cheating
1. Be ready to try out new things (Experiments)
it can be easy to get comfortable and fear of the unknown can stop you
from being open to different sexual experiences. Allow your man to try
new things with you. If you won’t, there will be someone else who will.
I’m not saying to engage in sexual activity you find repulsive but allow
yourself to experience new things with the man you love.
2. Do not feel in control of the relationship.
Often without realizing it, when we get into relationships we attempt to
control the other person to do what works best for us. We engage in
destructive relationship habits such as complaining, blaming,
criticizing, nagging, threatening, punishing and bribing or rewarding to
control.
3.Be familiar with his love language.
Being aware of your partners love language is essential in a
relationship. It helps to avoid embarrassment from partner, when he says
you are hot you should understand this compliment in the right way.
Also tell him sweet words using his kind of love language, as it has
the potential to save more marriages than marriage counseling has. Learn
your man’s love language and speak it to him regularly. He will know
he is loved and remain true to you.
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4.Be willing to bring in sex.
Men equate sex with desirability. Help your man to feel desired by
expressing your love in a physical way. Alway try to satisfy him in bed,
like make him feel like a man when you are with him in a confine place.
5.Don’t be too quick to accommodate.
Sometimes in a relationship, a woman can become too accommodating. Men
get into relationships with a very clear picture of what a lifetime
partner looks like and this is often in stark contrast to whom he may
have dated casually. Women work to become the person their partner wants
them to be and in doing so, they lose themselves. One day, their man
realizes this is what he asked for but he isn’t sure it’s what he really
wants. Maintain a healthy sense of self in your relationship.
6.Always show concern.
In a relationship you ought to be concern about your partner and what he
is going through. Never let him to do the thing and worries alone, show
care emotionally and otherwise so he don’t think he is alone.
7.Show how important your relationship is.
Often, when a man cheats, you will find the woman is also having an
“affair” that’s not sexual. It’s more socially appropriate. This
“affair” takes the form of prioritizing something, anything, over the
relationship. This could be a job, children, a sick relative, a charity
or anything that puts her man lower on her totem pole than the first
position.
Prioritize your relationship over everything else. This is the
relationship you want to last for all your life. Other things will fade
away and the relationship will still be there if you tend to it
carefully.
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